There is no disputing the fact that, right now, it has gone past just "RAINING" on our SAKERETTE FAMILY to "POURING"!
We've lost a significant number of SAKER MOMS, DADS, SIBLINGS, GRANDPARENTS, AUNTIES, UNCLES and FELLOW SAKERETTES themselves lately.
ALL the losses, without exception and irrespective of when and how they occur, SADDEN the heart, but there's no challenging the fact either, that some, because of certain "surrounding" circumstances, just "do a number" on one's soul!!!
Most often, in an effort to keep OBITUARIES "standard", even when the "FULL" or "LONGER VERSION" of the story behind the deceased's passing is known, those "in depth" details are just silently wept over, and only the "basics"; the "essentials" are posted (publicly), especially if the deceased is not an "actual" SAKERETTE or happens to be someone I don't know and have never met.
I therefore cannot quite explain what aspect, precisely, about the demise, on Saturday, May 16th 2020 of Mrs. NICOLE NCHUNG AYUK nee EBAI - a SAKER MOM I had never even heard about prior to her demise, makes her passing just so upsetting!
Maybe it is ...
- The fact that she had just celebrated her 53rd Birthday this past January 2020 ? OR ...
- The fact that she was WIDOWED at age 34 when her husband - Late Mr. OSCAR AFUGE AYUK, (himself very young), passed on in October of 2001 leaving her with 6 kids? OR ...
- The fact that one of her TWIN BOYS died a few months thereafter? OR ...
- The fact that she pressed on and got herself a solid education from some of Cameroon's FINEST and TOUGHEST Academic Institutions: Lycee Bilingue Molyko - Buea (Secondary School), GHS Limbe (High School), Yaounde University and the Advanced School of Translators and Interpreters (ASTI)? OR ...
- The fact that she defied all odds and steadily rose in her career from French Teacher at GBHS Limbe to Chief of Service for the Translation and Interpretation Service at the Ministry of Mines and Power and most recently, transitioned to CSPH as Sub-Director of the Translation department? OR ...
- The fact that she now leaves these children she worked so hard to raise, her grandson, her 7 siblings, a host of nieces and nephews, many others she took under her wing, and above all, HER MOTHER, to mourn her VERY SUDDEN and TOTALLY UNEXPECTED demise? OR ...
- The fact that she must have stayed very close to and doted on her in-laws, (even 19 years after her husband's demise), for A TON of those in-laws, (plus their spouses), to be as DISTRAUGHT as they currently are over her passing? (Boy, have they WAILED!!!) OR ... ????
We extend our deepest condolences to her entire SHOCKED & GRIEVING family, and particularly to her SAKERETTE ...
- DAUGHTER: NDIE AYUK (2006/2008),
- DAUGHTER-NIECE: MANUELA OTSENG BANYI: (2005/2007),
- DAUGHTER-IN-LAW: VANESSA NEH AWA AYUK nee NAMA (2007/2009),
- NIECE: MVODO OTSENG MICHELE, VICTORIA EFU HILLMAN nee MAKIA (1990),
- NIECES-IN-LAW: NYENTI FOMUKONG nee MAKIA, GENEVIEVE MAKIA nee TAKUSI (1990) and MARTHA MBU MBOTE nee BAYEN (1990).
MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE!!!